Simply It

It's the start of another week and beginnings might be tough sometimes so below are things I do that keep me motivated, peaceful and in a great vibe. 1. Say a prayer Conversations with God are really exciting for me. I always feel a whole load shift off my life and it really gets me to a point of balance whereby, I'm able to cope and stay sane in all situations. And the best part of it is that we can talk anywhere, anytime for free. 2. Declutter Get rid of the unnecessary or excess loads of previous experiences because all they do is just eat up your energy and time that could be invested in other great things. 3. Music This is always like therapy to me. Great music is soothing and really lightens up my mood everytime. 4. Good food Not just food but good food.  This doesn't even require any explanation. Good food is just unmatched. Period!! 5. Mind your own business! If it doesn't concern you, if it's not w

I've always questioned the types of friends and friendships going on in my life. Like sometimes I know someone and we really vibe then slowly or suddenly there's no connection between us. So this prompted me to just randomly do a research on the types of friendships people encounter in life and the ' Seasonal, reason and lifetime' description is what made sense to me. Here's what it entails;     1. Friends for a season We all have seasons in life eg joining a new school, starting a new job, shifting to a different environment etc. In all these transitions, you meet a person/people you grow with, learn and explore together then when you 'wrap up' and move to the next level, the friendship no longer feels the same as things start changing from the energies, priorities and also time spent together. These are the seasonal friends and a good example is the number of friends you had in your earlier stages in life vs now as you advance. Your priorities changed,